Hijras of Kashmir

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Syed Muktiar, 25 years old.She started to have inclination to dancing and singing since her childhood. “When i was 13 years old, a teacher, one day, forced me to stay in the class after all my schoolmates left. He abused me every day. When i couldn't take anymore, after a month, i ran away from home and never came back. Everybody was scolding me because of feminine behaviour in my home town”. Syed
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Abdul ”Reshma” Rashid, from Srinagar.“I was very incline towards music, but my parents never allowed me to sing. My younger brother was about to get married and I asked everyone not to interfere this time, as it was a day I wanted to cherish. I sang, danced, and everyone felt in love with what I did”, she recalls.Her brother died by accident, leaving behind 4 kids and his wife, but Reshma is been
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Nayeem, 25 years old, from Srinagar.She is into matchmaking since 3 years, but she is not working very much.“I started exhibiting feminine behaviour when i was too young to understand what was happening around me” she says. The negativity she had to face made her conscious of the “eccentricity” in her behaviour. Nowadays she is still facing a lot of abuse, discrimination and violence from the fami
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Samiir “Simran”, 30, from Srinagar.She used to go to school wearing feminine dress and whether the boys used teaser , and avoid her, the girl were very gentle with her. She is still in a good friend relations with some of them. “When i was 14 i left the school, i wanted to do something else, but my parents didn't agree and beat me very hard. So i warned them that if they didn't allowed me i would
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Chaaya, 29 years old, from Pampoore.Like many others community member she never found acceptance in the family which thrown her out of home when she was 15 years. She is into matchmaking since almost 8 years, but still not much established in the business because majority of the families prefers somebody elder. She avoid crossdressing in public places in order to avoid attention and harassment.
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Muskaan, 45 years old, from Srinagar.Despite facing daily harassment and discrimination, Muskaan love to wear girl dress and make up. She is working as community worker in NGO. By the age of 6 she became aware about her gender identity, and nowadays lives on rent with other community member.
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Sahil, 33 years old, from Anantnag.“When i was 15 my family threw me out because of my feminine behavoiur. I tried to hide my secret from them, but they came to know and forced me to leave the study. They beat me vey often because of that. So i came to Srinagar and i started to go to a park where many people were cruising. That's where i met a person that introduced me to matchmaking”. Sahil put o
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Shabnum, 35 years old, from Handwara. “I was just 14 years old when my father and brother threw me and my mother out of the house. They thought my birth had brought disgrace to the family,” Shabnum says.“My father and my brother first harassed me. At one point, they even assaulted me and my mother. One day, they went to police and got me arrested for ten days on fake charges of helping militants.
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Nisar “Basanti” Ahmad, 50 years old, from Pulwama.She came to Srinagar 20 years ago because of the harassment received in her home town and from her family. “A 3 years old children know who she is, she is aware of her gender identity. I started preferring playing with my mother in the kitchen, cooking, doing make up with my mother's”.  When Basanti arrived in Srinagar was working as servant at an
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Abdul Rehman, 64 years old, from Srinagar.“When i was a child i used to play with girls after schools but when i was going back home my father used to slap me because of it”, says Rehman. His family was against his behaviour from the very beginning. Only her mother was supportive and that's why both of them were kicked out from home when Rehman was 16 years old. She is now retired from dancing and
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Raunak, 24 years old, from Bandipora.She is working as a helper in a beauty parlor, where she earn a paltry amount of money just to fulfill her basic needs. She is into matchmaking since 4 years but still struggling to etch out a decent living from this profession. Raunak says that she faces harassment on a daily basis because of her behaviour and dressing which keeps her circumscribed to her home
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Babloo, 45 years old, from Srinagar.When she was 5 years old she started to have feminine behaviour. At the beginning the parents were opposing her inclination but they soon accepted it and nowadays Babloo is still living at her parents home, which is very  rare for transgender in Kashmir. “I fell great pleasure in wearing woman dresses. I would love to wear these dresses also in public, but it is
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Majeeda, 45 years old, from Srinagar.Copying the mannerism of her female classmates and sister at home, her everyday preoccupation was singing and dancing. She was forced by the family to behave like a boy since her childhood. They never supported her, even when she started earn some money from match making and performing at marriages. Majeeda, nowadays, lives in a rented room with other community
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Mohamad Sultan, 65 years old, Srinagar.She retired from matchmaking since 8 years and now she has no source of income. “I really enjoyed the matchmaking, also because i had never been good at singing and dancing”. Mohamad nowadays lives with her brother and blame very much his family: “when i was earning good money all my family was supporting me, but from the day after i quit the job, everyone di
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